This rainy season has been able to bring me back to the time when myself was filled with dream. At that time, the dream seemed so much closer to get. However, as I took step closer to my dream, the burdens came along and made it harder to take every further step. The fear of failing was what burdened me so much. Well, it’s ok though. Wise man said, “your dream isn’t big enough if it doesn’t scare you”.
I guess we wouldn’t have been able to know how hard the process would be when we hadn’t experienced it ourselves. Before plunging myself into this pursuing-dream ocean, I never knew the wave that crashed me would be so that hard. I thought I have been strong enough to bear with it. It turned out that, it was a no. No, I was not really that strong. The more I thought myself getting stronger, the more I felt myself getting weaker. The fact that I didn’t have much better plan for my future, except to pursue my dream, kept me holding on and forced myself to deal with all the burden. But again, still, as I took step further, the burden was getting harder and the fear was getting stronger.
“Hope is the only thing stronger than fear”
Some of you who love watching sci-fi movies perhaps has felt familiar with that quote already. Yes, it was from Hunger Games movie series. That epic quote is so much relatable to visualize how I cope with my fear. As I began to take this journey, I could realize that hope and fear are something that come hand in hand. What matter isn’t how to not have any fear at all, but more about how we can cope that fear by having more hope than the fear itself. Gaining hope isn’t something too complicated to do actually. We can have it by many ways. But there is this ONE way that I discovered throughout the journey of pursuing my dream and that way can only happen when it rains.
It began when I was in the middle of struggling to prepare for my IELTS test. I must admit that I am kind of person who got enough confidence about my English ability. I thought that I just needed to polish my ability to be able to conquer the IELTS test. But, as soon as I begun to take the preparation course, I realized that my ability was way less than enough, haha. The preparation course itself was really a struggling period :”)
In that period of time, I often questioned my own ability. I felt desperate so many times because my score couldn’t increase even just a bit although I’ve been working so hard on it. There was also moment when I shamelessly cried because I just couldn’t bear to imagine if I failed after all the effort I did. Whereas, I am not a kind of person who can easily cry. But at that time, I just couldn’t control and hold my tears from dropping. It’s funny though, how I could cry over that kind of thing because of the fear of failing, haha. But, no matter how hard the time is, there will always be hope there.
I cannot remember why exactly I started to build a habit to paying attention when the rain came. What I remember is that period of struggle lasted in the rainy season. What I remember is that when the day got cloudy and the rain started pouring, I could feel that my hope started to raise. As the rain dropped and reached out the ground, it drowned my fear and washed out my doubt. Through the rain, I could somehow feel recharged. It perhaps because I believe that rain always brings a very special moment when all my prayers can easily be granted by Him. Actually, I know this kind of thing for quite long time. However, I just could really internalize what it means and feel so hopeful because of it when I was in that state of being struggle.
Some might think it’s silly. But I’ll take that silliness delightfully for having that kind of faith. Because that, in fact, is always one of the reasons why I can stand still up until now. Since that, hardly can I find myself feeling so blue when the rain comes. Whereas, rain is often associated with a sorrow or melancholy feeling by people. But, it’s not for me now. It’s like giving a plant support to grow, the rain helps me to nurture the hope I hardly hold on myself.
On the days further before, I used to blame rain for ruining my day. My clothes, socks and shoes got soaked because of it. Basically, it spoiled my whole look. My perfect plan for a day got canceled because of it. It made me harder to go to a place I wanted to go. It used to ruin my mood a lot. Although, I knew that I shouldn’t have those thought. But still, I couldn’t lie to my own heart. On those old days, I covered all my bad thoughts with a bitter smile. I still remember when I used to have that bitter smile on my way home riding motorcycle under the rain. When the rain got harder, the glass of my helmet got dewy and I couldn’t possibly see the road without opening it up. As I lifted it up, the rain struck hard right on my face and it hurt so bad like being slapped. That was just how I hate rain even more.
Meanwhile, when I have already known how special rain is, another similar setting in which I rode my motorcycle under a pretty hard rain, I smiled so sincerely. That was the time when I went back and forth for many kilometers away to prepare for my dream university registration. It still hurt when my face got struck by the heavy rain, but I didn’t mind at all. Because the heavier the rain was, my heart would be more excited to pray for my dream as my hope got escalated. And that bitter smile before changed to be the sincere one. Without being forced, the hatred shifted to a genuine grateful. And up until now, I cannot help but smile when the rain comes. Because there’s still a long long way for me to really accomplish what I dream. That hope and pray of mine, I hope they can always be there to accompany every drop of rain which falls to the earth.
Having a dream is not only about getting successful to reach it. It is more about the journey, how we can value the process within. Both joy and struggle are the part of it. The joy in the process will help us to be grateful for having such dream. While the struggle will help us to be resilient and finally prove that we deserve to have and accomplish that dream. When we can sincerely value the process, we’ll find ourselves shifted to a better version of oueselves. Just like me who used to blame the rain, while now can be sincerely grateful for it, my dream has helped me to change the way I see a thing.
It taught me that it is never a waste to have a dream. Even if in the end we face the worst scenario to not being able to achieve it, I believe that it is still precious. Because it’ll give us a big chance to be much better version of ourselves.😊